I have been volunteering by answering the Help Line once a week for about a year, as well as occasional childcare during support groups and outreach at events. Besides being part of the skillful and hilarious group at CAP, what I like most about volunteering on the Help Line is assisting survivors who are tired of being abused, and desire empowerment.
What do you do when you’re not volunteering?
As much as I can! In addition to working toward an MA in Psychology/Systems Counseling at the Leadership Institute of Seattle, I work at Trader Joe's, play bass guitar in a band called Black Atoms, practice Nidra yoga and meditation, and lounge at home with my wife Megan and our cats.What do you know now about domestic violence that you didn’t know
when you first started volunteering?
I knew domestic violence was a common occurrence, but answering multiple calls each shift at the Help Line has brought into focus just how pervasive it is. It is also justifying to know that abuser tactics such as isolation, and verbal abuse are recognized as domestic violence.
I have to say gossip is my biggest pet peeve as it seems to often involve perpetuating negative views of people. In contrast, all of that energy could be used to engender positive narratives of individuals!
Best piece of advice you’ve ever received?
You have brains in your head.
You have feet in your shoes.
You can steer yourself any direction you choose.
Where’s your favorite place to eat in Seattle?
Besides the feasts Megan and I cook up at home, some of my favorite restaurants are Local 360, Tilth, and Palace Kitchen.
Anything else you’d like to share with other volunteers?
It is a pleasure to be part of the diverse, supportive, and impactful community of New Beginnings!
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